The key to unlocking magic is balance

Today, we're talking about harmonizing and rebalancing your masculine and feminine energies for living in flow. ♾✨

I'm so excited for you and for all of the magic you're going to open yourself to as you integrate this wisdom. :)

A mantra for heavy times: I am love, I am loved, I am loving.

P.S. I mentioned Whitney of Sage Luna Healing. If you're curious about a distance Reiki session via phone, you can book directly on her Facebook page. She doesn't know I'm talking about her which is so fun! 💛

Transcript

 Hello, beautiful being of light.  It's so good to be with you.  If you hear coughing or, like, a nose trumpet in the background, that's Nikolai. Nikolai has the flu, and it has been awful. So if you hear that, he's healing. Every day, he's actively healing.  Um, just to give you a heads up, because, you know, jarring sounds, at least for me, can be, uh, tricky or challenging to deal with. 

First, I wanted to say thank you for being here, as always. I'm so grateful. I love you so much. And I got a message from a friend who shared with me from the last podcast episode that I shared around moving beyond mental patterns of sabotage.  He shared, on the way home from visiting my daughter, 494 went from four lanes to one.

30 minutes into doing three miles an hour, I was losing my shit. I remembered I still had your last podcast. I found it very difficult to road rage while listening to your podcast, so thank you.  And the thing about that, that just, that makes me feel so I'm grateful to receive reflections in that way is because I've been told by many, many, many healers throughout my life that my voice holds a healing frequency and when you think about the chakras, when you have an open heart and an open throat chakra or chakra,  um, when you have these open spaces, they're able to be a bridge to transmit it.

Frequency and an open heart is where we're headed collectively for our consciousness for Gaia for Terra Nova, which is earth, you know and as we Bridge from the heart to the throat and we express our love and we express our truth and we express our divine expression  we anchor light codes and we elevate the frequency of the planet and That is profound.

So to know that I  I know for my childhood, for most of my life, the area I came here to explore is the throat chakra because so many instances in my life I have kept my words to myself. I have kept my throat closed. I remember going to school when I was younger and being so excited to like, in kindergarten we had this thing, I just had this memory,  um,  in kindergarten we used to be able to share, right, and if you were chosen to come up you got to share about whatever you wanted and I remember I was so excited to share and, and to talk about these details and to share about my mom and to share about, you know, things that I loved and stuff and as I got older.

I had the weight of conditioning and it became harder and harder and harder for me to speak my truth. And part of that was the patterning of trauma and abuse growing up, right? And wanting to protect people and wanting to not cause harm and being on the receiving end of verbal abuse and, and how that felt in my body and me never wanting to, you know, have anyone feel that way.

And growing into my voice. As I got older, I remember going through high school and we had, you know, a class where you could share public speaking, and I did okay, but I didn't like having everyone watch me. I, oh, God, oh,  and as I Went into college, I went into communications because I was trying to decide did I want to do journalism and, you know, maybe even be an anchor on air delivering news, or do I want to go into writing or do I want to go into marketing?

I knew that I really liked writing, but I knew that speaking, public speaking, wasn't my jam.  But in my degree, you had to do a public speaking class, which, understandable, I mean, if you're in corporate, you're presenting all the time, and if you're in business, you're sharing your ideas, and you're speaking in front of however many Zoom folks, and however many people in a meeting room, you know, all these things, and I remember I got up there, I had rehearsed and rehearsed and rehearsed and rehearsed, and I knew this, I knew this, okay, I knew what I was gonna share, I had my presentation, everything was on lock, I go up to the room, and The moment I watch everyone looking at me, their, their, all their eyes just focused on me, man, and their faces looking flat AF because no one wanted to be doing this.

No one wanted to be delivering, except for maybe two people who had a natural talent for speaking their truth. As I started sharing, my voice started shrinking and I completely lost my voice. It wouldn't come through. And I was like, oh.  Oh no! Oh, also, if you hear any meowing, that's Fern, my rescue tuxedo kitty who likes to come and anchor the frequency and also ask me to feed him, and he's always eating, okay?

He's not, if you're a vet, he's not always eating, but I'm just saying.  So I've been coming here. Like growing into my voice and partially that's why it's really cool that you're listening to me because I transmit frequencies. I even had a session with this woman. Her name's Whitney through my friend, Amber, who had referred me to her and she is a Reiki practitioner and  One of the things that came through so loud and clearly she was like, whoa, you have healers energy I can feel your healer aura and I was like, you're right and then she just started talking to me She has no idea who I am.

She has a very small very very very small footprint on social media and Like she has a Facebook page and the only way that you can book with her is through her Facebook page. She doesn't have a website. She doesn't have like testimonials out there, any of those things, which is like, if you've been in the business world and in entrepreneurship and the The programs tell you like that is not how you get clients.

You need to have podcasts and YouTube channels and you need to make reels and Tik TOKs and you need to share your messages two to three times a day. Otherwise people are going to forget about you and you got to have calls to actions and an email newsletter list. And you not, you need to be putting on webinar, all this stuff, right?

And here Whitney is with this very small Facebook page and these incredibly. 

And she's receiving clients through word of mouth, right? And that's usually how I have clients come to me is because someone that they love refers them to me because they've had a good experience or they had a shift or a breakthrough or a profound healing and then they're legless and you got to come to Ashley and I'm like, this is great.

Thank you. Because what is that heart to heart connection?  So I'm talking, I'm not even talking, Whitney is telling me as she's scanning my chakras and telling me about them and then she starts pulling through my gifts and she's like, oh my god, you have a healer's aura and  It's what, I can't put my finger on it, I can't articulate it, but there's something about you and your heart and there's these frequencies that you emit through your heart and that you are the work.

You're the reason why the work works and you're the reason why no one can do your work the way that you do it is because of the unique codes that you're flowing through your heart space. And I was like, she doesn't know I'm a heart healer.  She has no idea, and she's like, you blend spirituality and science.

You're, you're a bridge. I can see you're bridging people. You're bringing through ancient wisdom from, from eons, you know, ago and allowing this to come forward now as the bridge for the new earth for the age of Aquarius. And, And she was talking about how she was like, Whoa, there's something about your voice and you have these healing frequencies and tones in your voice that you bring through.

There's something about your voice. Do you have a podcast? And I was like, see, this is so cool. Like I love this. So for you to listen is amazing. And the thing that I wanted to share that's deeper than that is you don't even have to listen to my words. You just have to open your heart to receive.  You just have to be present with what I'm flowing through, knowing that I'm bringing through information that is for your highest and greatest good because I love you. 

Because I believe in you. Because there's a very specific reason why you are listening to me right now. I have another podcast, you could be listening to that. I have, you know, TikToks and Reels, you could be listening to that. And yet you're here. And there's something in me. That is uplifting and amplifying something in you, and for that message that he shared with me about not being able to access anger, it's because I love you. 

It's because you and I are in this beautiful dance in the cosmos, and we agreed to connect with each other at some point in time and space, and right now is it. And I remind you of who you really are.  I remember I had a healer tell me, or no, not even a healer, I was in a breathwork session with Vaughn Pierrot, if you know who she is.

And let me tell you what, okay, breathwork, mm, mm, mm, mm.  Breathwork is work. I did not know until my first session and I was sweating profusely and vibrating out of my body and was like, why is this so hard? 

But I remember we were in a group breathwork session and I had this massively clear message come through that said, My heart is the tuning fork to remind people of their cosmic origins. And I almost said oranges.  But even that, I hope you laughed at that because laughter is a really quick way to elevate your frequency.

But I remind you of who you are because I hold so much space. For you to remember that you are the creator embodied, that you are unconditional love in existence, always and forever. And if you cannot access anger in the moment or rage or frustration or sadness, it's because I'm offering you a bridge.

I'm offering you a moment and also to know that even those messier frequencies of those emotions are perfect. As they are because they're messengers, you know, so thank you for that message. I really loved it I think also  it brought through to me this idea that If you're in the United States, right, there's a lot of fear and there's a lot of also opportunity to expand beyond the fear and the chaos and the Maya, as they call it, or the Matrix or whatever,  but the fear through the information that we are receiving, and that's delivered from the news, By social me a, so cial me a,  via, by, social media. 

Sometimes my words are like really flowy and then they come together and I'm like, that's not it. Or is that a new word I just made up? Sometimes that happens too.  But we are being fed information to cause chaos and to dysregulate you.  There is intentionality behind all of this. They're trying to dysregulate you so that you stay in stress, and you have cortisol building up in your system. 

You're being, oh, it was 11 11 when I said that. They're inundating you with information to make you feel overwhelmed so that it's so much that you become apathetic.  That you feel like,  I need a savior. That, You can't continue on in life this way, that it's so hard, that it's so scary, that it's all this stuff, and first and foremost, you chose to be here.

You You were so lucky to be incarnated at this time on the planet. You have you have no idea honestly. Oh What a gift you are You being source creator embodied on the planet right now as earth shifts into higher levels of consciousness And you get to anchor that love on the planet You get to anchor your unique frequency through your heart that is literally pulsating out through the cosmos that connects everything to everything  You are so important and so special and you have been taught to believe the opposite  and partially That's why you came here is to remember who you are to remember the Incredible being that you are that you radiate effortlessly when you when you live in alignment with your heart, right?

When you allow the discord of your mind to harmonize to your heart's truth Which is love to be you fully  And that's, that's such a gift, right? And there's something about how you have been taught to believe that you are not powerful. Of course, because only people who are not powerful, only beings who are not powerful, would try to make you believe you're not powerful because they are so disempowered. 

Because that's a hierarchical power, is to say one person is powerful. better than the all or these people because they have these things are better than you or you should strive to find and seek and attain things outside of you even though you are infinity even though you are literal infinite abundance you are a master creator that's why you came to earth did you know that because you have the ability to move beyond the physical should you allow yourself to and i I believe that your presence holds a frequency that transcends the systems at play.

Right now, all of the information is data, and you can do what you want with data. You can also take your time to shift your focus away from the things that make you feel lower vibrational. Feelings that are streaming through these channels of social media, of the news, of whatever, right? If information can shape your perspective, you can also change it and mold it and morph it to support your perspective, which is hopefully in alignment with love. 

I actually, um, one of the things that I had to do today, because I was a little bit fearful, I'm not going to lie, watching Nikolai, uh, go through the flu. It's, it's a really bad strain and I'm not saying that to share fear, but I was like, listen, I have to travel for work soon, I'm going to be around a lot of people, and I'm going to get the flu shot, and so I went today, and I was waiting in line, um, because I also had to get, um,  And as I was sitting there, I was watching this older lady as she was like taking out all of these items from her cart and putting it on the, what is that called, the conveyor belt? 

And as she was taking out all of these items, they were like little baby items, you know?  And she, I just, I love this, she looked up at the cashier and she was like, I'm getting all these cute baby clothes because I'm going to be a grandma for the first time. And my heart, it like fluttered. I'm like, shut up.

I get to watch this right now. And the cashier was like, oh my gosh, congratulations. And the lady said, my daughter is having a girl. I haven't felt this excited about anything in so long. And the cashier paused and she looked at her and she was like,  Thank you for sharing this with me.  It reminds me that even though I'm feeling a lot of fear about our world, good things are still happening. 

Good things are still happening.  Do you hear me? Can you let that in?  There's a lot of noise in the world. They want you to be dysregulated because they want you to believe that you're disempowered. And yet your focus and your intention, intention and attention,  create miracles. Your belief in yourself creates miracles.

Your choice to look for the love creates miracles. Your ability to pause and play. Even for pockets of time to choose the joy to choose the abundance to choose all of the beauty in your life and to seek it out to,  like, task your consciousness to look for the good, the beautiful, the magical, the abundant. 

Look for it.  I promise you it's there. I promise you. Look within yourself. Look for all of the beauty within you. Look for the magic. Expand your heart into gratitude for all of the wonderful things you have now, right?  It can be really easy to fall into lower vibrational frequencies because we've been trained to do that. 

But you're actually here to help usher in a new frequency. You're here to help elevate humanity and the world. The plants, the trees, the beings, all of the cosmos is watching us right now because as we align ourselves to higher levels of love, that ripples out in the cosmos because everything is connected and interconnected.

We are all one, can you see? We are all one. And so, when you allow yourself to remember that you are actually so powerful that you are an infinite being that not even death  Could change you,  could take you away from yourself and the truth of who you fundamentally, truly are at the core of your being. Not even death.

And I know that that may trigger some people because people often, because they've been conditioned to have a belief specifically through religion, is that there's loss and there's separation. And that's part of the codes that I'm bringing through from the rainbow frequencies is that you are actually a whole being of divine intelligence.

You are infinite energy of love and joy and miracles. You are everything beautiful that you see. Can you hear me? You are everything. Beautiful that you see. And the more you allow yourself to see beauty, the more you allow your reality to expand in beauty and joy and bliss and abundance, even if it's chaos,  even if it's uncertain.

Because wholeness is the truth of who you are. There's a reason why our plants, plants, our planets are spherical, because they're whole bodies. There's a reason why we only see part of a rainbow, right? Because they're actually fully connected as a sphere. as a circle, just as you, the core of who you are, is this magnificent sphere of light. 

That's the truth of it. And the more you allow yourself to see your infinite nature, the more you allow yourself to see your power, the more you're going to remember, the more you're going to unlock, the more gifts you're going to discover within you, your psychic gifts, your ability to manifest. with ease because you're a creator because you're the creator embodied because you are creation itself creating.

And another thing I wanted to share with you is that part of this consciousness awakening this revolution that we're walking through in the age of Aquarius and beyond the codes that each of us are anchoring uniquely specifically in the way that we are exactly meant to right now and for the rest of time and beyond it because time isn't even real but  it is in the three.

The space, um,  part of that process is balancing the masculine and the feminine energies  because if you were to see, and I actually shared a picture of this on my Instagram stories today, but there was this beautiful light lines that were, um,  figure eights and they were making all these figure eights and at the center of the figure eight is this ball of white light. 

And when you realize that you are both masculine energy and feminine energy, you are the divine balance of it. You allow yourself to harmonize with just energy.  magic. That's, that's the truth. But what happens is the divine feminine has been oppressed and suppressed for so long. And we've allowed ourselves to witness what happens with patriarchy and imbalance, right?

And toxic masculinity and having the man be the head of the house and having women have no voice and all this stuff.  I mean, even our ability to receive that's a feminine wound, your ability, your inability to receive. is a feminine wound. You're over giving. You're  trying to hustle and prove your worth and strive to be as strong as human.

I just punched my microphone, by the way.  Whoa. I mean, that was kind of unconscious, to be fair.  Oh, it was 2020 when I said that. That's so cool. Balance, right?  Oh, everything is so beautiful.  But the more that we hustle and strive to prove our worth or try to force or try to control or manipulate or use our will to make things happen, that's imbalance. 

The more that we don't allow ourselves to receive and flow and to follow the universe and where we're being guided and to open ourselves to divine inspiration and, and this is actually the key that I wanted to share.  The balance of masculine and feminine is this. And I. It took me until this year and it's February 4th, 2025.

It took me until this year to realize how out of balance I was. I thought I was in flow because I was like, oh my god, I'm surrendered to the universe. I even just talked about this a little bit. I was like, I'm not going to force and bend and use my will to make things happen. I'm going to surrender to the universe and I'm going to allow what is.

And here is the key. The balance is this. And if you allowed yourself to sink into this, knowing things are going to happen for you and In such a beautiful harmony,  Divine Masculine is following your heart. The Divine Masculine is that action that you take that matches the flow of the Divine Feminine. So every single time you follow the inspirations on your heart, you are being guided by your soul through the language that it speaks, which is energy.

And that energy speaks in what? Curiosity, passion, joy, bliss, play. Love gratitude things like that. So the more that you follow like the little gems that feels inspiring to your heart because Inspiration is in spirit when you allow yourself to follow that feeling without assistant assistance insistence You can always have assistance I mean we have so many Beings on the planet right now who are assisting us plus your entire spirit team and your guardian angels and the unemployed angels and all These things these beings  The more you allow yourself to follow your heart, that feels good to you, that feels exciting, that feels curious.

You are being led by your soul, you are being led, but you actually have to take that step. You have to take the action because you are, you are  matter. You are physical matter, you are energy crystallized in density, and the way that you communicate with the universe, with your soul, with your higher self is by following your heart, right?

And your heart emits an electromagnetic frequency that radiates like three to six feet out from your body. It is accessing the quantum realm. Your mind can only radiate around a foot. So the more that you listen to your heart, because it is tuned into information that is flowing through you from your soul, your spirit guides, and you take the action step Then, you are telling your higher mind, I hear you.

And then the Divine Feminine allows the information to flow. The Divine Feminine allows what is meant to come perfectly. There is no insistence. There is no, it has to look this way. There is no destination. You are on a path of evolution through experience. That's the truth of it. Did you know?  So the more you allow yourself to experience how good that feels to follow your heart and then you allow what is to happen, that is the flow, that's the surrender, that's how things happen more effortlessly, that's how you manifest, that's how, that's just the key, right?

And I think For me, personally, what I have struggled with has been, especially in business, trying to force things to happen. I have, like, I need to share posts here today, I need to word it this way if I don't, I need to get a TikTok up, I need to write an email, I need to do that, I need to, um, Actually, another thing that I have struggled with for so long is comparison and trying to mimic what other people do because I'm like, well, if I do this, then maybe I'll experience that.

And it's because I love people and I want to do that. But I lost my voice, you know, and the voice is exactly what I'm here to. Recall, to remember, because the more that I like allow my voice to express the way it's meant to in the way that I am right now, specifically, the more I can hear my soul and the more I can hear my soul, the more I can recall ancient wisdom to support you on your journey, because what are we doing right?

One candle can light all the other candles, but it has to be brave enough to hold the flame. It has to trust that it was given the fire for this reason. Like, it's just that and it's yeah. That you, it's that you, you doing that in your own life also, it's you holding your flame for others to see. And knowing that fire cannot be held by everyone.

Not everyone is ready for how brightly you burn. And that means that there are people who are going to vibrate out of your sphere. That means that people are going to be drawn to you and to trust that because when you stand in your fire, you allow yourself to blaze in a way where it's like, listen, I'm a soul embodied and this is what I brought here to, oh man, it was 20, 24.

2525, uh,  I need to stop looking at my, like, little audio recording because then it takes me off track, but also I'm like, heyo, uh, the universe speaks in numbers, at least to me, which is why I'm always talking about synchronicities and 111 and 888 and, you know, because there's a lot of medicine and when you harmonize to certain frequencies, it can heal you or it can allow you to race to a certain space where you can start seeing or having a higher perspective of things and when you see them and you acknowledge them, you can receive them. 

Uh, that was like a whole tangent. Thank you for listening.  Balancing the masculine and feminine. So, one of,  this is such a tangent, I actually lost my place.  That's cool. If it comes back. It's meant to,  oh, did you hear that? He's coughing. Oh. Healing vibes, nickel eye  for balancing the masculine and feminine. 

I went so hard in my masculine because we have been taught in condition that if you strive and hustle and prove your work and work really, really, really hard, you will have the, you'll have your dreams, you will reap what you sow. And that is true to a slight.  Place because I pushed myself when I my first time I was in corporate America and building my business on the side when I was Trying to go full time.

I pushed myself to almost adrenal fatigue Because I kept telling myself if I just work harder I'll be able to receive all that and you know what it couldn't come because why would source the universe Reward me for abusing myself  Why would Source want to give me, with ease and flow, if I can't match ease and flow?

And part of the nature, if you think about even water,  a river, it is flowing effortlessly, but there's still energy in motion. It's not just sitting there, otherwise it's stagnant. And actually, it's really interesting because, I'll talk about this another time, but I was in the shower,  as one does, theta thoughts.

That's actually what happens when you do something. I think I talked about this, I don't know. Ah, but. I received a message from water and it was so beautiful that I came out and I just had all this information flowing through and I'm like, oh my god, so I'll share that another day,  but just to say,  all you have to do is take the step that you feel called to the thing that is beckoning to you and to allow whatever arises to happen because whatever pops up for you is for Maybe you're healing or there's a synchronicity or a bridge to connect you to someone or something or maybe it's an idea that will flow through you, but you have to allow yourself to open to receive it.

And one of the things that I've been learning is that  I have like, I keep kind of like burping, but that's, that sounds weird to say, but it's how I know energy is flowing through me. Um, because I'm releasing a lot of stuff right now.  So, thank you for listening to me.  When you open yourself to receive, you open your heart and you receive it from a grateful place.

You receive it from an appreciative place because what you appreciate appreciates what you give gratitude to grows, you know, like you are the one cultivating your own garden and it might as well be as beautiful as possible through gratitude. So the way that this works is you have to be grateful for what you have now and people can get really frustrated about that. 

if you think about it, what you focus on expands. And so if you are focused on the love you have in your life and the health that's flowing through your body and how maybe you have a job or you have this income coming in or maybe you have abundant ideas or maybe you have a roof over your head or maybe you get to go to the grocery store and buy what you want, which not a lot of people can do, or maybe you have healthy children or maybe you have an incredible connection with a coworker or a family member, maybe just like,  The list could go on, right?

Because the more that you honor what you have with gratitude and a beautiful, grateful heart, the more that you're going to see and expand your energy out into, because that's abundance.  It is a dance of a bun.  It's abundance.  Oh, I make things so weird, but it's fine. It's fine because this is who I am in real life.

It's kind of silly and like playful, you know, I, I haven't allowed myself to be playful for so long, even though that's my inner child and my inner child is like, I actually have the keys. And I'm like, no, you don't.  As an adult, I'm like, I know best. And then, you know, my inner child is like, let's talk about frequency because play is a very high frequency.

Imagination is a very high frequency. In fact, your imagination is one of the ways that you can connect to your intuitive gifts, how you can connect to your clairvoyance. Your clairvoyance. Your clary audience. See? Hahaha.  Play  so can you bring in more play because that also creates the expansion in your energy for you to receive and can you receive?

Again from a grateful heart. Can you allow can you surrender to the flow of where your life is bringing you without needing it? To look or be a certain type of way without attaching to any income income. Yeah, not even attaching to income Attaching to an outcome income and outcome  This is so fun  Because there's a past version of me who would Edit that out. 

Because it wasn't perfect, and it wasn't put in a little tiny box, and it wasn't wrapped in a bow, and I couldn't make any mistakes, because if I made a mistake, then I wasn't worthy or enough, or someone would judge me, and then they wouldn't want to listen to me, and then maybe they wouldn't want to work with me, or then maybe they would have terrible things to say about me, or maybe they would be like, that podcast is trash, or blah, blah, blah, blah, and can you hear that?

That's my ego. And I actually can see that purse, purse. Oh.  I have to slow down.  I have to slow  down.  Because there's something moving through me.  The chaos in the world is rapid  and noisy,  and wanting to spin you up into anxiety, and wanting to make you feel that you are powerless.  The key is regulating your nervous system.

To expand  beyond what you think, you know,  allowing yourself to open up to wisdom and higher levels of divine intelligence that wishes to speak to you now.  But when you consume and consume and consume, dear one,  how will you hear what we're saying? If you do not create the spaciousness  to receive  what we're flowing. 

Allowing yourself to just take deeper, slower breaths.  Because your breath is consciousness flowing through you.  This is the journey of you remembering  that you are so much more than your physicality.  That your presence knows so much more.  Even though what you see is not delightful and not easy on the eyes. 

Know that everything is happening for a higher purpose because we're purging the darkness. But we have to see it because if we avoid it, we run from it. We numb ourselves away from it. We believe that we're separate from the whole.  And the more that we allow ourselves to remember that we are whole beings in a whole system, that we are supported and loved beyond measure, and you will never know until the moment you are back in that space  of remembering that you are the one and the one is you. 

I am you. You are me.  We are one.  Don't lose yourself  in the fray.  Rise above. Rise above. Rise above.  You've got this, okay? You and me, we're here together.  That's all that matters. And the more that you follow your heart, the more you will remember.  That's the game. Can you see?  Can you hear? Can you feel?  That the fear has a message for you, and the message is to remember your love. 

So thank you for listening to me today,  and for letting me love you,  and for being an incredible Burst of light on the planet during a very dark time. And although it looks dark, it feels dark, it seems dark, your perspective is light.  Remember,  I love you. I hope you have a wonderful, magical day.